Why do We Have to Start from Home?
WHY DO WE HAVE TO START FROM HOME?
All parents want to be a better world, but not everyone knows where to start?
The parents and teachers that I love ....... there is a history of the Middle East country, is told that one day there are parents who have 5 children; according to which the children were quite unruly and naughty ..
Since it was felt he could not handle it anymore and did not know what the way out for him; then he went to ask for advice on the Great Prophets and Wise.
Upon arrival; he says;
"O prophet messenger of the Supreme Lord ...... We come here to ask for advice and instructions, how to take care of my five children were unusually difficult in the set and naughty this ..... Help us, O Prophet wise".
It was beyond expectations ...... Prophet Great and Wise was only giving brief advice once ....
"O my good parents ...... henceforth change one by one your behavior for the better; and now returned; God willing your children will change for the better ".
It's an amazing story .....!
The parents and teachers happy ....... advice even this turned out to be scientifically justified by the expert educators in our day today ....
In the view of educational psychology to know that over 70% of the child's behavior is "mirroring" or a mirror directly from the behavior of his parents; in their daily lives to educate their children.
The parents and teachers happy ....... in parenting programs that we have always held for the parents; we always say that if we want to change the behavior of children we then change slowly one-by-one behavioral us first and they will change to follow.
In fact, we have tried repeatedly through the therapies that we call love ... Which therapy when parents slowly began to change his attitude at home then slowly his attitude at school also began to change for the better and continues to improve.
Therefore; we often give awards to the parents of our school; which we refer to as "Parent Award". This award is given to the parents who have helped us to jointly change their behavior.
The parents and teachers are happy ........
Why in school, we give awards to the parents; because we know how hard we have a willingness to change; despite the changes that we recommend in the therapeutic process of affection indeed rather easy for parents; But not all parents can easily and willing to change; this occurs because of behavior that there's generally been awakened and become a habit for many years;
I was very impressed on a beautiful engraved inscription in Tombstone; late Westminster Abbey, genius, with his masterpiece the very famous Cathedral Church of London.
The parents and teachers happy .. let us refer to the last message successfully immortalized on his tombstone.
Thus it ......
When I was young and free delusional, I dreamed of changing the world ....
Then with increasing age and my wisdom, I discovered that the world is not changed, then the ideals and even then I narrowed down a bit, and then I decided to just change my country. But it seems that even then no desire results.
When I was getting dusk, with the remaining spirits, I decided to change my family, those closest to me. But unfortunately they also do not want changed ..!
And now, while I lay before the moment of death, I suddenly realized; "If only the first thing is I'll turn myself ...... So by making myself as a role model, I might change my family. And thanks to the inspiration and encouragement they could so I was able to repair the country; Then maybe I could even change the world
Westminster Abbey, England, 1100
The parents and teachers are happy ...... let's think together ....
By Father Edy
Reprinted from the book Father Edy Story, published by Noura Book.
Photo: FreeDigitalPhotos.net by stockimages
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The parents and teachers that I love ....... there is a history of the Middle East country, is told that one day there are parents who have 5 children; according to which the children were quite unruly and naughty ..
Since it was felt he could not handle it anymore and did not know what the way out for him; then he went to ask for advice on the Great Prophets and Wise.
Upon arrival; he says;
"O prophet messenger of the Supreme Lord ...... We come here to ask for advice and instructions, how to take care of my five children were unusually difficult in the set and naughty this ..... Help us, O Prophet wise".
It was beyond expectations ...... Prophet Great and Wise was only giving brief advice once ....
"O my good parents ...... henceforth change one by one your behavior for the better; and now returned; God willing your children will change for the better ".
It's an amazing story .....!
The parents and teachers happy ....... advice even this turned out to be scientifically justified by the expert educators in our day today ....
In the view of educational psychology to know that over 70% of the child's behavior is "mirroring" or a mirror directly from the behavior of his parents; in their daily lives to educate their children.
The parents and teachers happy ....... in parenting programs that we have always held for the parents; we always say that if we want to change the behavior of children we then change slowly one-by-one behavioral us first and they will change to follow.
In fact, we have tried repeatedly through the therapies that we call love ... Which therapy when parents slowly began to change his attitude at home then slowly his attitude at school also began to change for the better and continues to improve.
Therefore; we often give awards to the parents of our school; which we refer to as "Parent Award". This award is given to the parents who have helped us to jointly change their behavior.
The parents and teachers are happy ........
Why in school, we give awards to the parents; because we know how hard we have a willingness to change; despite the changes that we recommend in the therapeutic process of affection indeed rather easy for parents; But not all parents can easily and willing to change; this occurs because of behavior that there's generally been awakened and become a habit for many years;
I was very impressed on a beautiful engraved inscription in Tombstone; late Westminster Abbey, genius, with his masterpiece the very famous Cathedral Church of London.
The parents and teachers happy .. let us refer to the last message successfully immortalized on his tombstone.
Thus it ......
When I was young and free delusional, I dreamed of changing the world ....
Then with increasing age and my wisdom, I discovered that the world is not changed, then the ideals and even then I narrowed down a bit, and then I decided to just change my country. But it seems that even then no desire results.
When I was getting dusk, with the remaining spirits, I decided to change my family, those closest to me. But unfortunately they also do not want changed ..!
And now, while I lay before the moment of death, I suddenly realized; "If only the first thing is I'll turn myself ...... So by making myself as a role model, I might change my family. And thanks to the inspiration and encouragement they could so I was able to repair the country; Then maybe I could even change the world
Westminster Abbey, England, 1100
The parents and teachers are happy ...... let's think together ....
By Father Edy
Reprinted from the book Father Edy Story, published by Noura Book.
Photo: FreeDigitalPhotos.net by stockimages
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